Always we hope someone else has the answer,
some other place will be better,
some other time it will all turn out.
This is it; no one else has the answer,
no other place will be better,
and it has already turned out.
At the center of your being, you have the answer;
you know who you are and you know what you want.
There is no need to run outside for better seeing.
Nor to peer from a window.
Rather abide at the center of your being;
for the more you leave it, the less you learn.
Search your heart and see the way to do is to be.
~ Lao Tzu (Chinese filosoof, wijsgeer, ca 600 vC)